So, you are in love! Great! But the only problem that you seem to face is that the man you are head over heels in love with doesn’t want to make your relationship official, either on social media or to you personally. He avoids the topic as a cat avoids falling into a cold swimming pool and he definitely doesn’t bring it up when the two of you are together.
You really want him to open up and share his feelings with you. You want to share photos of you on social media and tell everybody on planet earth that he is yours and you are his. But he still introduces you as his friend to his friends and he hasn’t spoken about meeting his family at all. Worst case scenario you feel like you really love him and you’ve already told him. To which he didn’t say it back.
Now you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. You really want to be in this relationship with this man but it’s like you are putting in 100% and he is perhaps giving it 50%. He probably really likes you and to spend time with you, that’s why he is doing it. The reason for his coldness is, he is emotionally unavailable.
It’s not that he doesn’t want to open up towards you. He won’t open up to anyone. Maybe he has been hurt in the past and now he can’t open up anymore or perhaps he needs to mature a little more, get his career on track or reach some personal goals before he thinks of taking on the responsibility of having a full-time and full-on girlfriend.
So the question is: How can an emotionally unavailable man become emotionally available? And the only answer to this question is – TIME! If you decide to stay with someone who can’t give you their heart fully, you are going to have to give them a whole lot of time and patience.
You will be investing a lot of yourself in the ‘half-ton’ ‘half-off’ relationship. You will perhaps give up your emotional well being while you sit around and wait for him to figure stuff out before he can commit. OR you can give him the boot and find yourself, someone, who wants to commit and who is emotionally available.
To me, the latter sounds way more appealing. And now your next question will probably be: But where can I find someone emotionally available? Someone who will open up towards me and tell me that they love me? The answer is easy – GoMarry.com.
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