We have all heard the term chemistry and how a long lasting and loving relationship is going to need to have plenty of chemistry between you and your partner in order to last the test of time, but what exactly is it that creates this chemistry between two people.
Yes, it is fair to say that there definitely needs to be chemistry for you to fall in love with someone, but is it possible to make this chemistry happen for you or is it just something which happens naturally?
Can you make that person of your dreams fall for you, by forcing that chemistry on to them, or are you going to let nature take its course? Well, we are going to look at what chemistry is and how it works, so that you can make your own mind up about it.
Eye contact is something which is very important in many different walks of life and it is also something that is a big must when it comes to creating chemistry.
Don’t stare at someone in such a way that you are going to freak them out but hold their gaze for a little bit longer than it may be needed. This is a great sign that you are interested in them and it is a great way to feel the chemistry between the two of you.
If you are at a comfortable stage with one another, you can also add a few touches in. Don’t get overly touchy-feely, as this could make things uncomfortable or even lead to just being friends. However, touching their hands, brushing hair out of their eyes, or even a stroke of the arm can all lead to that all important chemistry.
People usually say that they want someone with a good sense of humor but who is to say what is a good sense of humor and what is not. The important thing is to find someone who has the same sense of humor as you have, no matter what it is.
If you are both on the same page when it comes to your humor, then you will soon both be on the same page when it comes to chemistry.
Sharing important details about your life with your partner is something which is definitely going to help them to relax, open up and feel the chemistry growing between the two of you, which will lead to future happiness.
So, while chemistry is really something that should happen and develop naturally between two people, it is fair to say that it is also something that you can help to move along. Remember though, if you try to bank on forced chemistry, I am afraid it won’t work and you might actually end up pushing the person away. Find the perfect balance of giving and taking and you are going to find that perfect chemistry between two of you.
