Forget intimacy for the sake of procreating. I’m talking about getting jiggy with it for the sake of enjoying this God given sensory pleasure drive…. Talk about it, do not get shy but do keep the wording decent.
More than 50% of all failed marriages are due to intimacy related issues. So as awkward as this question seems, it is crucial that both of you know what you are getting into. There are people who are not necessarily sex-maniacs but feel that they are missing a crucial facet of their lives if they go three days without being intimate with their spouse. How your potential partner responds to this question should give you a glimpse of what to expect.
- Are you comfortable with their response?
- Can you live up to their desire/need?
- What should they expect, intimacy-wise, once you get married?