The biggest problem when it comes to love is that we lost the urge to really love someone. We are obsessed with ourselves, with our fears and inner struggles. We become creatures of logic, uncertainty, and distrust.
We expect someone else to come and guarantee us lifetime security. To stay tucked away in our comfort zones. You know that’s an illusion and that’s why I think that love is worth the risk, at least the secure one.
You may ask now what the security risk is. It’s when you know what may happen in the end and you know how you will survive it. It’s when you have so many options opened that you’ll never have time to feel lonely and deprived of love.
Love is all about our need to feel safe because such a feeling makes us comfortable and out of trouble.
Just imagine one day without being loved by anyone- your child, boyfriend, husband or pet?
Your world will probably start to fall apart. And deep down inside you would feel emptiness and sink down in the world of sorrow and weltschmerz.
When we love ourselves – nothing is an obstacle for us.
How to achieve that stage of self – love, as the main premise of loving and being loved?
You can’t just wake up one morning and say: „Wow, I really love myself!” It’s a step by step process.
And still, we are trying to find love in so many other things that do not love. In drugs, alcohol, self-isolation, fake guru’s preaching, self-help industry, medicines…Why? Because we are unable to stop for a moment, take a deep breath and ask our heart- What’s the best thing for me at this very moment? Whom can I love? Whom can I hug? Whom can I kiss?
GoMarry.com may be an ideal haven for you because it brings a whole new approach to love. It’s realistic above all unlike all other sites devoted to relationships and marriage. It’s for people who are not exactly where they want to be in their lives, who feel frustrated and find themselves feeling unloved. It is not conforming to the old fashioned etiquette dating rules.
The opposite is the case- it’s conforming to common sense and to what is love all about answers. It will really make you happy and at peace with yourself because you will choose the guy/girl whom you find really attractive in every way.
