Find A Balance But Not Ignoring the Red Flags

Ignoring The Red Flags

 

There are some people out there who feel that everyone deserves a second chance and when it comes to relationships. There are definitely some occasions when this is perfectly acceptable. However, it all depends on what the initial mistake was and if you can truly forgive them for it. You need to really know yourself and trust that you will be able to forgive them but at the same time. You can’t completely forget what they did, as you need to watch for the red flags. Then you also need to know them and what their red flags are. It really isn’t an easy thing to do, but here is some advice on what you can try. In order to forgive your partner for their mistakes, but not ignoring the red flags.

As you don’t want them making the same mistake again. Not finished there though, you do still need to forgive them and trust them, showing them that you are willing to give them another chance, without holding this mistake over them. Do you feel dizzy yet? Have a headache now? It really isn’t an easy thing to do, but here is some advice on what you can try. In order to forgive your partner for their mistakes, but not ignoring the red flags.

 

People Are Different

At the end of the day, everybody is different. So you are going to find that there are some people who make a mistake in their relationship, but who are truly sorry. These people will learn from that mistake, will never do it again and will try to prove themselves again. These are worthy of that second chance.

However, there are then those people who beg for forgiveness with their crocodile tears. Then once you have forgiven them, they just continue to make the same stupid mistakes, time and time again. These people are not worthy of a second chance and you need to walk away.

 

Start Slow

When your partner has made a mistake and you are willing to give them a second chance. It is very important that you don’t go back to your same old routines. As things are more likely to go back to the way they were. Instead, you need to start by taking things slow again.

A good idea is to go back to the beginning and start out by being friends again. Remember what it was like to fall in love the first time around. If your partner is willing to do this and willing to fight to make things right, then he is worth another chance. If he refuses to give this a try, then it’s time to say goodbye.

 

Set Some Rules

For your relationship to eventually get back to where it was at its best, it is important that you set some rules. Firstly there need to be some rules to make sure your partner doesn’t make the same mistakes as before. If they agree to these, then it is all good, but if they don’t then it seems like they are not ready to change. Meanwhile though, even though you are not the one who did wrong, it is still important that you make sure that you have some rules to follow too. This shows that you are also willing to compromise in order to make the relationship work.

Follow these guidelines and you will be sure to know whether your partner is really worth that second chance, or not.

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