It is arguably the most powerful phrase in the English language but people often don’t know when to say ‘I love you’. Let me share the signs when it’s too early to say ‘I love you. First of all, congratulations on finding someone you see as having real potential. It’s a great thing to think about falling in love. You find someone and know you’re planning to say the L-word ‘I love you’. Now let’s discuss the signs.
1. You’ve Not Been Dating For At Least 6 To 9 Months
Well, different couples have different dating frequency. For instance, some meet every day while others only hang out during the weekends. However, you must give at least 6 to 9 months before using the L-word. If you’ll say it early, your partner may feel you’re manipulating him or you want to use him, etc. What I mean is that he may feel that you don’t love him sincerely. In other situations, you may have taken only your friend’s emotions as ‘love’. So you must evaluate all the aspects before saying ‘I love you.’
2. When You’re Not Sure
If deep inside you feel that you don’t love that guy, you must not go ahead and say I love you.’ If you’re not sure you mean it, you must avoid it. It’s not something that can happen later on in a relationship. If there is true love, it can grow but if you’re in a doubt, never move forward.
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3. When You Expect The Same From Your Potential Lover
If you’ll say ‘I love you’ first, you’ll not relax until you hear it from your partner. The ideal situation is when they say it right away. They may say that they also wanted to say the same but they were nervous. But the issue is when you’re not sure about your partner’s response. H3e or she may say ‘we’re only good friends’ or ‘I don’t feel about you in such a way.’ Well, it’s not offensive but you’ll never feel good about it. So the best thing is to hold your feelings and wait for the right time.
4. You Never Talked About Future
If you want to build a long-term relationship, you’ll surely talk about your plans. If your potential lover doesn’t talk about plans in six months, he’s not that much interested in you. On the other hand, if you’re an essential part of all of his plans, even his net weekend plans, then it’s the time to say ‘I love you’.
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