Are you in a hot and cold kind of relationship? You feel like you can’t live with them but you also can’t live without it. You are caught between a rock and a hard place and you don’t know whether you should let this relationship go forever. You have to ask yourself are we compatible or not? Do I really want to be with this person forever and a day or are we going to keep playing games until eternity?
Here are a few reasons why you are caught up in a roller coaster relationship.
- Personality Clash
You both have very strong opinions and personalities and sometimes two strong personalities clash. Maybe both of you have issues that you haven’t dealt with in the past. It’s true what they say: “Two wrongs don’t make a right” If two people aren’t ready to be in committed relationships, they should figure themselves out, individually, first!
- Can’t get over past experience
Maybe you’ve hurt one another in the past and getting over being lied to or cheated on is a bigger task than you thought. You can’t get over what has happened and this is prohibiting you to move forward and grow towards the future.
- You aren’t compatible
The two of you don’t have any of the same interests, you don’t like the same places, people or activities. As a matter of fact, you are living two separate lives, you really love each other, but trying to find a middle way of actually living together is impossible. Opposites attract, yes. But you want someone you can share a life with and when you hate everything that they love it will be a recipe for disaster.
- It isn’t love
Confusing lust over love is a common mistake. In the beginning, you found them extremely attractive, you couldn’t wait to tear their clothes off of their bodies. And now that the infatuation has died down you have realized that you don’t really like them all that much.
- You don’t want to be alone
You are probably scared of moving forward, you know that this relationship isn’t good for you, but you still can’t help yourself by going back to them. Feeling hurt and sad all alone at home isn’t a lot of fun, and picking up the phone to find comfort with your ex is as easy as that.
This is why we strongly recommend Gomarry.com, which promotes ‘Marriage Only Relationships’, as these kinds of relationships put you in positions where it’s not easy to let go and get back together again. Being in a marriage makes you commit. You have to work through problems together and you can’t just break up when you feel like it.