As much as we are all comfortable being intimate, some find it extremely hard to initiate intimacy for various reasons.
It would help a great deal in establishing their stand on this. Please define what initiating intimacy means to both of you e.g. to some it means foreplay, to others it may not necessarily mean so. Be very candid about this as intimacy will play a major role in the success and/or failure of your marriage.
- Do you feel comfortable initiating intimacy? If yes, why? If no, why?
- Who do you expect to initiate intimacy? The husband? Wife? Or both?