The use of social media is so integrated into our lives that we cannot overlook this as a future cause of marital problems. From this question, you want to find out your partner’s social media practices. Knowing a person’s use of social media can reveal a lot about them.
Use of social media can potentially affect your marriage. How frequent are you using social media and how much do you share on it? Also, what are your reason for being on it? Some people are addicted to social media whilst others are scared of it.
Talk about social media boundaries that must be adhered to. What is an acceptable amount of time to spend on social media, who each of you can follow and communicate with and what is not acceptable to share?
Liberal use of social media is the leading cause of infidelity and divorce. So take this question seriously.
Question:
- How many social media types are you an active user of? E.g. Facebook, Instagram, Youtube, Twitter etc
- How many hours a day do you spend on social media?
- Are we allowed to follow the opposite gender… this is an important question? Be they celebrities or people we know in real life… outside of immediate family.
Advice: You must both be subscribed/following each other on every type of social media you use. In saying this I don’t care what people think, I just want to be realistic and ensure you have a long lasting happy marriage.
