There are some people who have absolutely no issues with talking about sex or being open about sex, even being willing to talk about their sexual experiences. Then there are those who are a lot shyer and reserved about sex, preferring to leave it as something which happens in the bedroom and stays in the bedroom
Steamier sex provides the spark when it comes to having a loving relationship with your partner. Whether or not you are open to other people about sex is not going to play any sort of major role. However, being open and honest with your partner is something that could take your sex life, and your relationship, to a whole new level.
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Don’t Become Boring
While so many people brag about how great their sex life is with their partner, how many times they do it per week; how long they can last; and the amazing sex positions they use; the truth actually is, that most people will eventually get into a boring routine, when it comes to sex with their partner.
Once that raw passion wears off and you have been living together for a while, most people will have one night a week reserved for sex, if that. Then, when the sex does finally happen, it is just the same old boring missionary position, which doesn’t last long, and you both just roll over and go to sleep.
This will put a strain on any relationship, so try not to let it happen. Find ways that you can spice up your sex life. At the end of the day, steamier sex is going to ignite a deeper love, for both of you.
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Mix Things Up
With all that in mind, it is time to start mixing things up. Surprise your partner by doing something spontaneous. Just grab a hold of them for no reason at all and take them to the bedroom. Heck, in some cases they might enjoy it more if you just get down and dirty right where they are.
The key is to make things exciting again. Don’t wait around for that one night a week to have boring sex. Try to mix it up and make it look like steamier sex. Look up different sex positions and try them together. Laugh and joke about the silly ones. Bring the fun back into your sex life. Your relationship will thank you for it.
Try Yoga
A great way to get yourself into the right mind frame, and to give yourself a better body for better sex, is to try yoga. Not only will yoga make you more limber and flexible, but it will also help you to feel more relaxed, more at peace, and more loving, not only to yourself but also other.
I have no doubt that after a few yoga classes your sex drive is going to go through the roof. This can help to work towards having a steamier sex life with your partner, which will also lead to you having a deeper love for one another.
So stop with the boring sex. Start with the steamy sex. And get that deeper love with your partner.
