Falling out of love with someone because of another person can be as painful as being dumped by someone because they are three “players” in the game and the feeling is awful. Trust me on that
I also believe that no one intentionally wants to fall out of love. It just happens that you can’t tolerate the partner who is in love with someone else. And for me, it doesn’t matter what’s the reason- someone or something else. I am left in the dark and the reason why- is the last thing that bothers me.
Read: How to get away from liar partner
Following are some of the signs I have experienced myself to tell me my partner is in love with someone else.
SIGN #1 The split attention
Try as they might, but it’s so noticeable. They simply can’t focus on the two of you instantaneously – The one to feel remorse for, the other to fall in love yet. It sucks if they have a conscience at all. You will notice this lack of concentration and if they try to ascribe it to their being overwhelmed with work, please check it out.
Better late than never. The faster you find it out, the less it’ll hurt. Ask them. At this point, you’ve got nothing to lose except for your sense of dignity, which is nonetheless undermined if they have fallen in love with someone else. So, ask!
Read: Why men pull away after getting close
SIGN#2That stupid smile
They can’t take that smile off the face even if the news anchor has just reported on some awful disaster with thousands of people left dead, because he is not listening to anything. He’s daydreaming about her. It is the open and shut sign that your partner is in love with someone else.
That is to say- he reminds you of him at the beginning f your relationship. I know. It’s a nightmare. So, ask him again- “Who the f*** is she?” and promise him you’ll not get mad, you will just get even!
SIGN#3 Emotional estrangement
You will feel when you hit that emotional iceberg or lack of emotional intimacy. No more long hugs, kisses, romantic walks…It’s all gone. They are emotionally disconnected, indifferent about you or relationship. Along with it, they become hypercritical. Everything bothers them especially the thing they haven’t even shown interest in before.
SIGN#4 Lack of trust
They don’t confide in you anymore usually because they have that new friend whom they can tell everything that crosses their mind. Also, they are not caring about your pain anymore. They act neglectfully since they know your relationship will be soon over. That’s why they are not even willing to talk about problems and the best answer you can get is that they don’t feel like talking!
SIGN#5 Sex without emotions
It’s when they only want to have sex with you. No deep conversations, no foreplay, nothing. Sex, without intimacy because they already have it in the other relationship. It’s sad but true and this is one of the first signs of infidelity.
SIGN# 6
General avoidance Not only do they avoid talking about some future arrangements with you but they avoid your family and friends as well. Anything that can make your relationship lasts just a day longer is avoided like a hell.
