It seems impossible to fall in love with more than one person, but now it has happened. You have fallen in love with two women and you have no idea what to do about it. Don’t fear when I’m near! GoMarry.com is a platform full of eligible bachelors and bachelorettes and if you scrolled through the profiles of our members you may feel like you have to choose between two diamonds. But how do you make your choice? Who will you go to a marriage meeting with? Here are a few things you can consider doing when you are stuck in a love triangle.
Consider your options
Firstly, you can’t stay in a love triangle for the rest of your life; the three of you won’t be able to be in a loving relationship. So, you need to make a choice. And once your choice has been made you need to stick with it and don’t look back. You need to consider these two options with an open heart and an objective mind.
Listen to your heart
Your heart won’t let you down or lie to you. Who are you most drawn to? Even while chatting, do you feel like you could listen to this person’s voice for the rest of your life? Or when you’re talking to the one, are you constantly thinking of the other? Tap into your emotions and find out who you feel more connected to.
Listen to your logical head
Your head should be the logical thinker in this disastrous situation. Think about being with both these people separately. What makes more sense? Be objective while listening to your head, don’t let emotions get hold of you. Who do you have more in common with, whose views are most like your own and who has a similar family set up? Should you relocate to be with one of your love interests? Will they be able to provide for you and keep you safe, will your parents approve of them?
Consider the consequences
If you decide to pick the riskier choice you need to consider the consequences of your choice. Always remember that once you have made your decision that you won’t be able to go back and make it again. Picking between love interests can be really difficult and can cause future feelings of regret.
Make the pros and cons list
Write an old faithful pros and cons list. What do you like about each of them and what do you dislike? Also, write down what positives and negatives there would be to date each one of them. Be fair and objective while writing these lists.
When picking one of the love interests you need to be cautious. Remember that each of these individuals is also emotionally involved. Try to let go as easy and as kind as you can. Don’t put it out there as if they were in a fighting boxing match. You don’t want to hurt yourself or either of them.