Body Language

Body Language: 7 Signs She Isn’t Interested in You


There’s a girl and she is so beautiful to you. But you have no idea whether she is romantically interested in you or not. It’s no hidden fact that men are a bit clueless when it comes to signals from the opposite sex. has put together a list of signs to show you that you should stop wasting your time because she isn’t interested in you.


Here are the signs:
  1. Her body language doesn’t lie

When she shows a closed body position then she isn’t interested in you.  This will be sitting with her arms crossed and legs crossed. Her whole body may be facing away from you towards another area. If she isn’t smiling or looking interested when you talk, then she is showing disinterest. If you’re interested in learning more about body language have a look at one of my previous articles on how you can use body language to create attraction.

  1. She doesn’t contribute to the conversation

You try everything to talk about interesting topics that will excite her. But the most you are getting out of her is short ‘yes’ and ‘no’ answers. She isn’t initiating conversation and it seems like she doesn’t really want to talk to you.

  1. She doesn’t initiate dates

Even though we believe that it’s the man’s duty to arrange second and third dates. When a woman is really interested in you, she will initiate dates. She will drop comments like, “I really wish I had a date for the concert on Friday,” but if she isn’t interested, she won’t even mention it at all.

  1. She avoids eye contact

When a woman is in love and extremely interested, she will try to keep eye contact with you. Looking into your eyes and keeping it, shows that she really likes you.

  1. She avoids touching you

Gentle touches on the arm or hand is a clear sign that she is flirting with you. If she is sitting in a closed body position and not touching you at all, then she isn’t interested in any form of intimacy with you.

  1. She doesn’t make any effort

When you invite her over or you take her out on a date, you can tell that she didn’t really make any effort with her appearance. When a lady is interested in a man, she will go the extra length to look extremely attractive.

  1. She puts you in the friend-zone

“You’re such a good friend,” or “I’m so lucky to have a friend like you,” will be some of the phrases that she says around you. When a girl says these things, she may definitely like you, but not in any romantic way and this is her way of telling you.


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