The biggest and most important part of having a happy and successful relationship is to be open and honest with one another, and that includes telling one another what turns you on
Some people are too shy or too embarrassed to talk about these things, but telling your partner what turns you on: is going to help you have a happier relationship, in the long run.
If you are someone who struggles with talking about these types of things, then it is time for you to loosen up, relax and trust your partner. The fact is, that when you first talk about this, your partner is likely to laugh since they aren’t used to hearing these things from you.
Don’t take this as then making fun, as it isn’t. Instead, laugh with them and ask them what turns them on. It will work, I promise you. Then you can both chat away about what turns both of you on, which will bring you closer together, make you a happier couple, and give you better love life.
While it is definitely important that you both tell each other what turns you on, this doesn’t mean you have to do them for him or he has to do them for you. Don’t judge what each other likes and be open to exploring these ideas, but make sure that you lay down some ground rules too.
If there is something which turns him on that makes you feel uncomfortable, then tell him that and don’t be forced into doing it. At the same time, if he doesn’t like something that turns you on, then you have to accept that and move on. After all, love is all about give and take.
With that said, you do both need to find ways that you can turn each other on or your relationship is going to fail. So try to find a common ground where you both feel comfortable with doing those things to turn each other on.
Imaginative but Realistic
To help both you and him to get excited, you need to get imaginative and creative about the things you want him to do to you, and what you would love to do to him. However, it is vital that the two of you are realistic in what you want to happen, otherwise, you could be in for a disappointment.
So make sure to keep it as simple as possible, starting small with some naughty text messages (if this is what turns you on). If you aren’t someone who sends naughty text often, then it will surprise him and maybe even turn him on too and, if your desired response is a naughty text back, you might just get your wish.
Open and Honest
At the end of the day, the most important thing is for you both to be as open and honest as possible, as this is going to help you to have a much stronger relationship. So don’t be afraid to tell him exactly what turns you on, and make sure you find out what turns him on too. After meeting each other on GoMarry, you are both going to be in for a treat.